When is it okay to touch a baby bump uninvited?

Most certainly not! When you don't know her, just assume its off limits, and if you don't know her well, you ask permission!

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For the first time in the entire pregnanc.y, I had a lady rub my belly. I work with her, and she is nice and all, so I didn't say anything, however, I don't know her all that well, so it was awkward to have her in my personal space like that.

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A woman's baby bump is very sensitive and private. I mean, would you just walk up to a lady and pick up her baby out of the stroller or car seat without asking??? NO! Who does that?! You always ask before touching someone, especially their baby bump.